Feeling stuck in dance class? Struggling with choreography? Thinking you’re the only one who doesn’t get it?

Let me tell you something right now - you are NOT alone! Every single dancer (yes, even my show troupe and advanced students!) has moments where things just don’t click. Some weeks, you’ll fly, and other weeks - tumbleweed. This. Is. Normal.

Let’s break it down:

- Learning isn’t linear! Progress doesn’t happen on a perfect, weekly schedule. Some routines feel great straight away; others take time. That’s just how learning works.

- Chunk by chunk by chunk. First comes the footwork - get the basics into your muscle memory. Then, repeat, repeat, repeat, and slowly, you will add fluidity. And the armography? If the arm movements don’t make sense right now, simply don’t do them! Focus on the feet first. Plenty of people do this.

- EVERYONE asks questions! Timing, weight transitions, turns, walking, “I have no idea what I’m doing!” - It’s why you’re in class - to learn! You are never the only one figuring things out.

- Stop comparing yourself to others! Everyone absorbs choreography at their own pace. Focus on your journey and celebrate the bits you are getting right.

- STOP PUTTING PRESSURE ON YOURSELF!

Here’s the truth: You CAN do this, and you’re probably doing much better than you think!

Relax and enjoy the process, and it will become easier!

So next time you feel frustrated, take a deep breath and remember: TRUST THE PROCESS. 


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I do hope you will join us soon!

Boss Lady & Choreographer - Lara Gothique

The Velvet Burlesque™

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